Definitions of happiness

As the mall went on sale, Rajni bought a new dinner set for the kitchen. After coming home, Rajni took out the old utensils from the kitchen and kept them aside, and put the new dinner set in the rack. He had a feeling of satisfaction that the kitchen looked very useless with different matching utensils. But now the kitchen set was visible from the twinkling of the dinner set. Kamwali Bai Kamla saw a pile of utensils kept down in the kitchen, and her tears went up, that today so many utensils have to be asked. But then Rajni said that "These dishes are to be given to the scrap man. If someone wants you to take them". Kamala's face changed as soon as she heard this. All steel gleaming utensils. Kamala asked slowly what to take. The new dinner set looked so good that Rajni said, "Yes, take it all". Kamala did all the work quickly and brought all the utensils to her house. He had very few utensils, which were worn out. Remove those utensils, clean the brought utensils and put them cleanly, and start thinking that all the waste is broken and will give it to the waste. He was feeling very satisfied seeing the kitchen. Just then a beggar at the door pleaded for tea. When Kamala took tea, she saw that the beggar has a broken, chopped dirty box of aluminum in his hand, which he put forward for tea. Kamala quickly went inside and put tea in one of her utensils and gave it to the beggar to drink. When Bhikari returned the pot after drinking tea, Kamala said you keep it and also brought the remaining four utensils from inside and gave it to her. The beggar took out both the pots from his bag and dumped them in the dustbin and proceeded humming happily.

Definitions of happiness can be different for everyone. But the feeling of self-satisfaction from helping someone is priceless. Rajni could have given a few rupees by giving utensils to the kabaddi, but she gave Kamala free utensils and if Kamla got the utensils without spending any money, she also gave her utensils to the beggar.

The beggars put their old dishes in the dustbin where they were picked up by the garbage men. It took a small step forward and turned into a chain. If we take a small step for some good work, then he goes ahead with a lot of goodness with him. So make a habit of doing a good job every day to feel this happiness. That good deed can be anything and if it feels strange to help someone, feel reluctant, then work aside to find happiness - like watering public plants, mowing birds, feeding animals, Pouring flour tablets to fish.

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Corona Positivity

We all heard a story in childhood that a turtle and a rabbit raced and they explained to the turtle that the tortoise cannot win in front of the hare. But the turtle, determined to win, participates in the race. The rabbit covers more than half the distance in four strides, and lay under a tree, to rest for a while. He blinked in the cold air and the rabbit fell asleep in a deep sleep. The tortoise continued slowly, and won the race.

  We all took inspiration from this story that, by working hard, success is achieved even in difficult work. But this was an old-time story. Today is a time of dishonesty, corruption and fraud. In today's story the turtle challenges the rabbit to run. The rabbit thinks that the turtle has heard the story of the hare's defeat from his forefathers, and now he will win very comfortably by running non-stop in the race. But in front of the insistence of the turtle, he did not do one thing and once again the race started between the two. The rabbit jumped from the front of the turtle and started running. The rabbit was seen moving very slowly behind him. Running on the winding path, he suddenly saw a turtle near the victory line. The rabbit also made a long jump but by then the turtle had won.

  This is the truth of today. The tortoise could not win honestly, therefore, he did not even try to win. He cheated and hid his brother near the place of victory. When the brother saw the rabbit coming from far away, he touched the victory line and won. The turtle and rabbit race was also held in the first time, but then the turtle won honestly. However, he was not expected to win. Today's tortoise wants to win by dishonesty because he considers himself weak and resorts to dishonesty. We know that, from the troubles of this time, we should learn that, in bad times, there is definitely some goodness, because even during bad times, we do learn some new lesson. Now it is up to us, what positive things we take from it.

 Today, when global disease is spread everywhere, most people have given up without any effort, and many people have taken the path of dishonesty. This time is new, even our parents have not seen this time. It is a new and disturbing experience for everyone. The joy of success after difficulties is different. With positive thinking, older children are facing this difficult time together. Now things have become clear that people who did not believe in the decisions of their children, thought that children do not know anything, we have seen more of the world. All those people had not seen much till now. Some people of today's generation used to look at their family elders with disdain, considering them as useless. In this difficult time, the elders of the house became the shield of their family and stood up to support their children emotionally. Even in the biggest problem, everyone said to each other that this is not a big problem. And in the same way, family members came to know each other's strength, tolerance and power to work. In most households, the generation gap has ended and respect, love and belonging have taken place. If she tries to see the goodness, she also opens the seven locks. The first requirement of today's time is positive thoughts, which will definitely bring goodness from all around you like a magnet. Time is dynamic, therefore, this time also has to pass, and good time will surely come.

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Ghost of fear

Ghost of fear

This is the story of a potter's family. Any member of the family used to dig mud from the mine, and then they used to sell those earthen pots in the market. Where he used to dig soil, there were many insects. And many times insects used to cut the froth while extracting soil. So he did not feel afraid, because, from the beginning, he got used to all this. One day the potter dug the soil and his hand went into the burrow made in the soil and some insects living in the burrow got bitten by it. He tied a bandage with mud on his hand, and made utensils and went to market. The next day his wife went to the ground to take the soil, and she saw where an insect was bitten on the potter's hand. A poisonous scorpion lay dead there. The farmer's wife understood that this scorpion had bitten her husband. She reached home in a panic and waited for her husband. The potter came home at night, the wife asked about his health. The potter said that there is a pain in his hand, but he is doing all the work. While giving food, the wife told that she saw a poisonous scorpion dead in the field, whose sting can kill a person within a few hours.  Nothing had happened to the potter. The potter, after eating his food, opened the bandage after eating and saw that there was indeed a bite of a poisonous scorpion. Now the potter's condition has worsened. Foam started coming out of his mouth and he fell to the ground.

What ended it is not important. The important thing is that until the potter did not know the truth, he was doing all the work. But as soon as he detected the poison, his condition worsened. Unseen troubles make the ghost of fear sit in our minds, and we lose out on fear before we work. If we already know that the work is difficult, then we get nervous. But no matter how difficult the task is until we do not know, we try our best to do that work. To avoid stress, nervousness, and distraction, every task should be done easily. No matter how big the disease is, doctors always say that it will be cured. Just keep this faith and positivity always with you, then trouble, illness, trouble, and difficult circumstances cannot spoil us.

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Children's Upbringing

Children's Upbringing

Children should be raised in such an environment in childhood that a healthy, sensible personality is grown up. The effect of whatever happens in childhood is reflected in the personality of the child's future.

Chubby and healthy Nikunj studied in a co-educational school. One day his mother went to his class for some work, then saw the girls sitting in separate queues and the boys sitting on separate benches. He was very surprised to see this. She told the class teacher that "when it is a co-educational school, why are boys and girls seated in separate rows". The teacher blushed and said, "it doesn't matter where the children are sitting and how". Mother said, "In this way, children will start thinking of girls differently from childhood". The teacher said, "This is a good thing. Children will especially respect girls". Then the mother said that "This is childhood. The difference between boys and girls should not come in the mind of children at all. Co-education means to sit together and study". Now a few days later, the same teacher called the mother to school and told that Nikunj pushed the girl sitting with her. In class, the mother noticed that the girl sitting with Nikunj is more chubby than Nikunj. The children said that due to the lack of space on the bench, the girl pushed Nikunj, causing him to fall down, due to which all the children started laughing. Nikunj started sitting again after sweeping the clothes, but by then the girl sat comfortably, so the space on the bench was reduced further. When he started to sit, the girl again pushed Tej. Nikunj's elbow crashed into the adjacent bench. He angrily pulled the girl's hair. The teacher blamed Nikunj completely. The mother listened to it and laughed saying that "It is not the fault of a child because, instead of having two obese children together in a classroom, a fat child with a thin child would be seated, instead of sitting on a bench, There is no fight ".

Children start fighting over small things. Then teach them to face the quarrel in peace. At that time, if a child would get up and show the teacher the remaining space on the bench and say that he could not sit in such a small place, then there would not be a fight. In childhood, make the habit of resolving the fight as a problem. Anger always hurts, be it children or older. Everyone should be respected because what they give comes back after some time. If we answer the fight in the same way, then the matter increases. But spontaneously and calmly answering poorly spoken language can calm the anger of the angry person, and will also avoid high blood pressure and mental stress. When someone uses profanity, it is very difficult to remain calm but not impossible. With a little practice, keeping quiet in these situations, thinking correctly and giving accurate answers will start.

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Right Direction

Right Direction

Sometimes we do not understand why our work is not proceeding properly. Even after taking a lot of time and doing some work, that work does not lead to realization.

Madhava was a devotee of Lord Krishna. He often thought that "I do so much devotion, worship, prayer to God but God does not listen to me". Madhav felt that everyone's time was coming, only his time was going bad. His worship is of no use. Lord Shri Krishna Ji is not paying attention to him, then his works are not being done properly. After thinking about such a thing for several days, one day he picked up the idol of Krishna Ji and slammed it on the top of the room and started worshiping him by bringing the idol of Durga Ji. Every morning, incense-lamps started to rotate in front of the idol. One day, he got the idea that the smoke of incense and lamp goes directly upwards and there is a statue of Krishna Ji above, then he must also be smelling this smoke. As soon as the idea came, he picked up a cloth and tied it on the nose of the idol and said that even when I do not work, I cannot smell my sunshine. As soon as he spoke, Krishna Ji appeared visually. God said that till today you were worshiping me like a lifeless idol of stone. Today for the first time you thought in your mind that I breathe. Just then I appeared to remove your problem. Where the direction of your thinking gets corrected, the work also starts to get fixed.

This is a religious story, so God came forward, it does not happen in real life. But it is understandable from this story that the work you do should be done with full dedication, loyalty, and dedication. Madhav did not do puja with all his heart. He used to do all the puja only to follow the rules. So as soon as he thought that the idol breathed, that was the moment when his sense of mind turned into a sense of surrender. When we do work according to the routine then it is very lifeless. There is a lack of meaning in it, whether it is an office, home or any of its work, if it is done happily, with positive thinking, it will give a positive effect. While doing the work with the idea of ​​handling it, doing it with burdensome heart makes that work a burden on itself. Because of which working becomes a headache. Whatever you want to do, do it with joy. Contribute the full hundred percent of your ability to it. Then the result of that work will also be a hundred percent positive and happy.

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Everyone's Caretaker

Everyone's Caretaker

There are seven days in a week and there is a story associated with everyone. There are many stories of each day. Today, we talk about one of the many stories of Sunday.

The king of a happy, prosperous kingdom was very religious, ritualistic and kind. His wife used to go to the temple daily to worship. One day after the puja, Pandit Ji tilak with "Roli" on the forehead of the queen, sprinkling Akshat (rice) on the head. When the queen put her hand forward, Pandit ji gave Charanamrit (water placed near God) in it, which the queen drank and put the hand on the head, applied the remaining water drops on the palm to the head. Rani asked that we have never seen God, so why worship him. Panditji told that God arranges for everyone's food. It is a way to honour them, so we care for them. The queen did not like this thing. He saw that there were ants on the sweet offerings. The queen picked up an ant and locked it in the comb between her hair. While sleeping at night, the queen told the king all the things that happened in the temple when she got the ant's attention. When the queen opened her hair part, the ant came out. The queen was surprised that the ant came out of the morning without food and water. Then the king explained that the rice which Panditji had sprinkled on your head. One of his grains was too much for the ant's food, and Charanamrit's hand which fell on the head and drops of water which would be on the hair was the ant's system of water for the whole day. Then the queen understood that God only cares for animals, birds, trees, plants and humans.

It is true that the God who does not let the birds sleeping on the trees fall, he has made some arrangement for everyone. But this does not mean that we should sit with our hands on it that we will get food. Just as the elders have said that the person is hungry, but does not sleep. But in today's time, if we want to make our life good, then a little hard work will have to be done because life is not the purpose of man only to fill his stomach. We are better than animals and birds, we have intelligence, wisdom, knowledge and understanding. Anyone who has all this can make their lifestyle more good with little effort. It takes some time but any ordinary situation can be transformed into a very good situation with the help of self-help, dedication and peace.

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Faith and superstition

Faith and superstition

There is a very subtle difference between faith and superstition and if that difference is not understood, it does not take long to convert faith into superstition.

It was raining heavily in one village. Started filling with lots of water. People were leaving the village after saving their lives. Nilesh, who lives in the village, had unwavering faith in God and was telling everyone, "There is no need to leave the village. By God's grace, either the rain will stop or there will be a way to escape". People would listen to him and go ahead without saying anything because they were also going unhappy that they had to run away leaving everything. Those who did not want to go sat on the roofs of the house and now it was so full of water that Nilesh also had to go to the roof of his house. He was confident that God himself would come to save him. When the water started filling up more, people started sitting in boats and the roof was filled with water, then Nilesh climbed the tree with it. People who knew him equally got out of the boat and asked Nilesh to come in the boat. But Nilesh refused. The water continued to rise and climbed the high branch of the Nilesh tree. In a short time, the rescue team's aircraft arrived and ropes were hung from them, which caught the people in the aeroplane. But Nilesh refused to hold the rope and said that I have full faith in my God, he will save me. But in a while, the water-filled up all around and Nilesh drowned in that water.

When he was brought before God, he shouted loudly that I believed in you so much but you did not help me during my trouble. I kept waiting for you but you did not come and lost my life. Then God said that I came to save you again and again but you did not believe me. I asked the villagers to leave you at the start of the rains. When the water was full, I sent the boat and when you did not take any step to save your life, I also hung the rope from the aeroplane which was caught You could have survived but your faith had turned into superstition due to which you did not make any effort to protect yourself.

This kind of thing also happens to us many times that instead of improving our own circumstances we expect another. It is not a bad thing to trust a particular person, but it is not right to think that everything will be fixed automatically due to trust. There is a lot to be done to fix everything. It is good to believe in God, but it should not be turned into superstition. God makes someone a medium to do your work.

God himself does not come down to do any work. One should not give up work in the faith of God but should work more diligently and diligently. With the belief that God will help and all will be well. Only the positivity of this belief will help in completing the work.

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Worth of hard work

Worth of hard work

Those who get some good by doing work, they should keep doing it.

A person (Nandan) found a gardener in the garden. The owner had told him that there are not many trees in the garden, so he is thinking of selling the garden. Nandan started working diligently. He cleaned the place around the trees and planted many flowering plants. Nandan stayed in the garden and took care of tree plants. Due to the hard work of night and day, greenery started appearing in the garden all around. The income started by selling the flowers and fruits of the garden. The owner also became very happy with Nandan. One night, Nandan got a voice from a tree that he was happy with the hard work of Nandan and wanted to give money buried under the ground to Nandan. Hearing this, Nandan's happiness did not stop. He dug up the land and took out a pot full of money. He started thinking that his expenses are running from the pay of the month, when he goes to his house then he will take away the money. Thinking this, he suppressed the wealth in the backyard's ground. Now he started to think that he should leave early and go home. He did not feel like doing any work. The owner approved the leave after one month. Now Nandan has stopped taking care of the garden. He would spend all day thinking about money.

Without water, the plants started to wilt. But still, Nandan did not take care of trees and plants. Before leaving, when he saw digging the pit, the pot was full of ashes. He did not understand how it happened. Then the tree said that this wealth was the fruit of Nandan's hard work. When Nandan stopped working, his fruit was also destroyed.

The garden was not of Nandan. When he was only a gardener, the income was of the owner of the garden. Out of which, Nandan too would have got some amount. Anybody could invest that money. Money could be spent, but he acted greedily and due to the hard work, honesty, he got the money. Left with the same hard work and honesty. He could keep all the money while working honestly and hard as before. Luring all the wealth, he also adopted laziness, due to which all his hard work was lost.

 To get ahead in life, hard work is first required. Then it is also necessary to maintain that hard work. As long as you keep working, you will also keep climbing the steps of success and at these heights, you will also be waiting for you with a pitcher, pot and chest of money.

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Not every friendship is good

Not every friendship is good

Friendship must be done very thoughtfully. Supporting bad friend gives trouble but good friend gives happiness.

A dung-worm (gobri) became friends with a worm (bhavra) hovering over a flower. One day Gobari called the bhavra to eat food at his place. The bhavra had to go into dirty, smelly dung, garbage to eat. Then one day the bhavra called Gobri for his meal. Drinking the aromatic, delicious and sweet juices of the flowers, Gobari was very happy that a person plucked those flowers and offered them to the temple and after a while, Panditji carried all the flowers and flowed into Gangaji. bhavra asks Gobri, "How do you feel", then Gobari said your friendship was very good for me. I was blessed with delicious food, darshan of God in the temple and now a touch of Gangaji. Due to Gobari's friendliness, bhavra had to eat garbage and bhavra's friendship made Gobri's life worthwhile.

Friendship is made for happiness, happiness, happiness, peace, love, love, satisfaction. Bad people are treated like coal in our life, which, if hot, will burn hands and if cold, will make hands black. Meaning, it will do harm. Such people are not true friends, like leeches. Those who talk well in front but make fun of what you have said from behind, do evil, expose confidential things and do not accompany them when needed. So, remove negative people from your surroundings so that a good friend can have a place in life, who will appreciate your feelings. Which makes the mind happy by talking, forgetting the trouble. To make room for such a friend, bid farewell to your friend's circle of surplus. Start spending your time in any other activities, wrong and bad people will be away from you due to the effect of positive thinking. You will also get good friends and you will also get happiness.

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Word-Medicine or Word-Wound

Word-Medicine or Word-Wound

Nowadays the prevalence of satirical language has increased a lot. Almost everyone is getting used to talking bitter in the name of circumnavigation.

Dhritarashtra and Pandu were brothers in the Mahabharata story. The king's elder son was made, but Dhritarashtra was blind, blind, and he could not see, so the task of taking over the kingdom was given to his younger brother Pandu. Dhritarashtra's children were called Kauravas and Pandu's children Pandavas. When the Pandavas built their palace, the architect used such art in it that there was a feeling of water on the floor, it seemed that there is a pond there. Where there was a pond there seemed to be land. When Dhritarashtra's elder son Duryodhana came to see the palace, he considered the pond on the ground, and removed the shoes from his feet to swim in the pond. But on taking the next step, he came to know that there is no water there. When Duryodhana went to another room, he felt that there was water on the ground and he thought that this too was a deception of water like the previous place and, considering the ground, stepped on it and fell into the water. Draupadi then smilingly said the sarcastic statement that "the son of the blind is blind". It was only after hearing this that Duryodhana was determined to take revenge and this resulted in the fierce war of Mahabharata.

Earlier it was said that speak such a word, lose your temper, cool the oran, you cool down. That is to say such a thing in which you feel good and listeners also feel good. Someone's bad mood can also be corrected by speaking good words, but speaking bad things can make the situation worse. Sometimes the situation is a bit bad and we cannot change ourselves accordingly and get upset and say something bad. The situation gets cured after some time, but the effect of the matter is not cured so soon. That is why it is said that jaggery does not sell even to those who speak bitter, and chili is also sold to those who speak sweet. It would be our words that do the work of medicine on the unhappy mind and the misery of the front is reduced. The sarcastic things sometimes work as a sword which causes such a great wound on the minds of the listeners that the relationship between them deteriorates. Let's go. Nowadays, there is some problem with everyone, in such a situation, the use of harsh words can make the other more angry. There is a difference between mocking and making fun. Everyone enjoys it while doing fun. The atmosphere becomes lighter, Stress is reduced. Everybody likes a happy person around them. The person who has the habit of taunting for some time is liked by the people and after a few days, the number of people who meet him starts to decrease, while people are attracted by a happy, funny, cheerful person.

If you also want to be discussed, want to become the favorite of people, then stop taunting, satirizing everything. Remove the sarcastic look of the face and try to maintain a smooth, smooth smile. Initially keep a fake smile, slowly you will get used to keeping yourself happy. It will take some time but fake laughter will turn into real laughter. Facial ridges, wrinkles, freckles will go away. The motto of going to the heights in life is a faceless, shiny and happy face that attracts everyone.

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Tomorrow Never Comes

Tomorrow Never Comes

This story is also very old. I heard this story in my childhood. You must have heard this story sometime, somewhere.

In a farmer's field, a bird made its nest and laid eggs. When small chicks came out of it, the bird left the chickens alone and went to take food for them. The bird used to worry about its children that, if someone harvested the crop, its children would be harmed. One day on his return, the children told that the farmer had come to see the crop and was saying that the crop had been ripened. Hearing this, the bird said, "No problem, the farmer will not reap the crop right now". Now he too was worried because the chicks were not so big that they could fly. Two days later, the children told that the farmer was saying today, he will send his neighbours to harvest. The bird knew that no one would come. But, two days later the children said that the farmer had come and said, "Now the crop is very ripe". Tomorrow we will send the brothers to bite. Hearing this, the bird said to keep practising flying because we have to leave this place within two to four days. But tomorrow his brother will not come to work. This time the farmer came and when he saw the crop, he said, "Now I have to reap, no one does any work. I have to do my work myself or else the crop will be spoiled". When the bird's children told this to the bird, she said that it is not right to stop here. The wings of his children had also grown a bit. She flew away with her children.

This thing seems very simple but if we look deeply it is true. Only when we are determined by our mind, words and actions can we complete a task. There is never any work with the desire to make someone else work. One has to do his own work. Expect colleagues to get work done for office work. Want to get family members to do their work at home. But, sometimes if someone else does our work, then in return something wants from us. And, never does that mental tension. One should always do his own work to avoid it.

When we think that this has to be done, then we are preparing ourselves mentally to work. When we speak in front of someone about doing our thought work, then the power of speech also gets added. In this way, the mind leads to thinking, and through its words, to do the work. Then the hard work that is done to complete the work is karma. Without him the mind and the word are meaningless. The main role plays karma. There are two lessons hidden in this story.

1.) If you look at the farmer, he said from the very first day that the crop is ripe. However, he did not want to work on his own. So dependent on neighbours and brothers became dependent. Due to which his work could not be completed on time and then his crop could also be spoiled. That is, to finish the work in time, instead of looking for someone, one should do it themselves.

2.) If you see it from the perspective of a bird, then in every situation you should decide with peace, understanding, and restraint. The bird understood from the farmer that he is lazy and wants to get his work done by others. Seeing all things, understanding and thinking, he decided to stay for a few more days. And made his children so big that they could all leave safely.

The idea of ​​doing some work should be understood as soon as it comes to mind, the power of the mind is attached to that idea. You should think about how long it will take, how much money will be spent and whether to do it for pleasure or to get money. Then how much happiness or wealth will be received in return. Thoughtfully add the power of the word to it. That is, those who belong to you, are your well-wishers, close friends, relatives and tell them your thoughts. If you do not want to tell anyone, then whatever supreme power you believe, you should speak in front of the God you trust. So that the power of speech, speech, speech is also associated with that idea. After this, add your third and most important power - karma, hard work, because without it the work of mind and speech becomes useless. The main role is played by karma. For example, you start thinking in your mind that you have to clean the house, then, whatever you want to do, you start saying that cleaning is to be done. But, until you start work, thinking and speaking will be useless, and the dirt will keep increasing. From now on, make it a habit not to hang it for long. Try to meet the deadline as quickly as possible. Initially, it will take some time, then there will be practice to complete the work in time and all your work will be completed in time without any hindrance.

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Thomas Alva Edison & Perspective

Thomas Alva Edison & Perspective

A few days ago someone said to me, 'Why do you have gold coins in your stories?' Then I said, 'These are the stories of times when there was no paper money.' I have tried to tell here in these stories that, what was right then the same thing can be true even today, just need to change the perspective, which we call 'perspective'.

 Let's talk about the story of today. The world knows the story of Thomas Alva Edison, how he was sent back home from his school with a piece of paper. When she showed her mother the paper, she read it and started crying. On being asked by the son, he said that it is written that, your child is so clever that school teachers cannot teach him. Then mother started teaching him at home on her own and after some time she became recognized as a scientist. After the death of his mother, when he got the same paper while cleaning the house. When he read the paper, he wrote in it that his son is a fool, so he is being expelled from school.

This is not a story. This is a reality, but how many people have understood this deeply and, how many people help their children while studying. In the place of help, they wish to fulfil what they could not do themselves by their children. In today's environment, families should, when children need emotional support, parents understand their problems and find a solution, and stay with them so that the child does not feel lonely. The child could put his problem in front of them without hesitation. With a small child, we should keep trying to make a relationship like friends in a clear, transparent way. If both are treated like friends, then any bitter situation will be solved before they come.

Before I make my point more clear, I would like to share with you an incident described. A friend of mine told that his young son had to face a lot of difficulties while studying. He was very sick from the beginning. After studying a little at home, he passed the school entrance examination. But when the student did not answer anyone question in the class, the teacher made the boy stand facing the wall. He may have done some mischief in the excitement of seeing a new class, new classmates, new teachers and new environment, but it was a very big punishment for a two and a half-year-old child to stand facing the wall for half an hour.

It was not so much. Now, even the next day, the teacher made him stand facing the wall as soon as he came, after a while, the son turned around and saw the Masterji punished him by standing in the back of the cupboard. Now, every day the teacher would face her towards the wall and stand behind an iron cupboard. Soon, the son started refusing school. Then one day, the mother told the elder son that, during the time of mid-day, he would see that the younger one does not bother any child, fearing what he does not want to go to school. While teaching at home, the mother saw that the son had started making mistakes in writing d and b, w and m. The workbook of daily classroom work did not work, work was wrong and work was dirty, was getting written. Now one day the elder son came home and told that when he went to a small class for some work, he saw that he was punished for standing behind the cupboard facing the wall. Now the mother understood all the things about the son. When there was no hearing in the school, then the mother agreed to teach her children, and then the children, whom the teacher had told the child as a dyslexia patient, today she was good with an IQ of one hundred and thirty. Has taken substantial degrees, diplomas and certificates. Perhaps this son is also Thomas Elva Edison of the future.

Education institutions that are given a hefty amount to teach children cannot be blindly trusted. Children belong to us, so we have to support them. So that he can share, share with us easily from every sorrow, suffering, trouble, trouble or problem and can get out of them instead of being afraid of them. We can give them the courage to face every situation so that they can overcome the difficulties To come out.

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How rich get richer

People say that money only draws money, that is why it becomes richer and richer and becomes poorer and poorer. This is a saying which means that one who has money can try to increase income by using that money and make more money. This process starts, it helps to make more money, but the rich can be the one who uses intelligence.

 It is in this context that an old story is remembered. There was a businessman. When the businessman earned a lot of money, he hired an employee to help with the work, who stayed at his house and also did the housework. In no time, the businessman made a lot of progress, his number began to be counted among the rich. One day the servant came to my mind that Mera Seth has become so much money in a short time and I remained the same employee. After thinking for several days, one day he asked the businessman the secret of his richness. The trader told that by using intelligence, one can increase wealth a little because money has magnetic power, so money only draws money. The servant decided to become rich after listening to the whole thing.

He used to see daily that the businessman used to lock the room by converting the money received from customers into gold coins in a cupboard of his room. The servant collected his gold and took a gold coin in return, and one day he finished all the work and, at night, took the gold coin in his hand and sat outside the room. He was thinking in his mind that with the effect of this coin, all the coins from the cupboard would come out from under the crack of the door and he would get rich by collecting them. In this spirit, he put the coin held in his hand under the crack. Nothing happened for a long time.

His hand also started to ache, he also started getting tired and in such a situation he got a little sleep, meditated and left the coin from the hand and went inside the room from under the crack. Now the servant's condition deteriorated and he was the only one who went too. He went to his boss in great anger, told him the whole thing and said that it is a lie that money only draws money, he sat all night but his Money could not draw anything. Now it was the turn of the owner to laugh. He said that my money was more when your coin was alone, so my coins pulled your coin to yourself. Money can be made only through sensible methods and not in foolish ways. The result of foolish work is that even his only coin went away by hand. By keeping it in today's time, we can learn a lot. In today's time, the biggest gold coin is to use our intelligence properly. Actually, it often happens to us that if one person has benefited from work, then we also copy it without thinking for profit, then the same work doesn't need to give us the same benefit as it has given to another person. The reason for this is that a person's dedication to work, time to work, and way of working may be different, his style of presenting his work may be different and all these things his benefits, advantages, and It reduces or reduces profits. The same thing happens among colleagues in the office and we say that the other one got promoted and his salary also increased while my progress was being made i.e. my salary was to increase. Now the business people, looking at other businessmen, think that we sell the same thing but others are making more profit. Then we should think that the frontman must be using some new technique in his work to increase income.

Now what we should do is understand it properly
1. Every work should be finished within the stipulated time frame.
 2. Instead of copying someone, working using your ideas will bring newness in the work which will impress everyone.
3. Try to do your work in a clear, clean, transparent and effective way.
4. Try to leave a special mark in your work or business, whether it is archaic, modern, scientific outlook or display of artistic interest. So that your work or business gets a new identity.

The truth is that income can be increased on the strength of hard work, passion, passion, honesty, honesty and intelligence.

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The Rituals

Some special rituals start at the beginning of our life. Some of which come every year and especially they are followed every year. Some times, according to the age stage, such as getting the hair of a newborn (mundan rites), feeding the child for the first time (food prasan rites), there are many stories related to each festival, customs, rituals, fasts and celebrations. Some message is hidden because nowadays the festival season is going on. Right now many festivals like Nag Panchami, Okdwas, Rishi Panchami, Raksha Bandhan, Guga Navami Krishna Janmashtami Pithori Amavasya have come out and Ganesh Utsav from Kajri Teej, Dubdi Satay, Ganesh Chaturthi to Anant Chaudas, Navratri, Dussehra, Karvachauth, Ahoi Ashtami, Many festivals like Diwali, Govardhan Puja and Bhai Dooj are going to come. So sometimes ancient, religious stories which are recited to each other on these special occasions will also tell you.

An old lady was Mai. There was only one boy in a hut who lived out of town for employment. The husband had died. Every morning, he used to make a small statue of Ganesha from the soil of the courtyard, recite his worship, and when the water was offered to him, the soil used to burn. He had been following this rule for years. One day he saw that Seth's house started to be built on the adjacent land and many Rajgir (labourers who build houses) are working. He saw that the workers were spraying a lot of water on the wall they had built, but nothing happened to the wall.

Now Mai went and asked the labourers that I make Ganesha every day, but after adding water, they melt and then fall, I have to make new ones every day. The workers told that they are working on the stone, the stone will not be spoiled by water. Mai found this thing very new and very good. He said with the gesture of a small finger that even for me make such a small Ganesha of stone. I have no money but I will give lots of prayers. The workers laughed and said that in the amount of time you do your work, you will build an entire wall. Mai Bichari left with a sad heart, but after that, the artisans built the wall, it did not become straight, they dropped the wall and rebuilt it, but still did not. In the evening Seth Ji came and saw that no work has been done today, when he asked the reason, the workers told the whole thing and told that, since then this wall is not being made straight. Sethji listened to the whole thing very carefully, then called Mai with respect and got the stone Ganpati built, and asked the Egyptians to work diligently. After that the wall also became fine.

Everyone's view of understanding this story may be different. But the main thing is that when someone is in need and if we do not help in spite of our ability to help, then the guilt of our mind can only spoil the work. If an elderly person hopes for help on the way and we do not help him that we do not have time, then after that the same thing will remain in our subconscious mind that if there was time, we would have helped. As far as possible, you should try to listen to the mind.

With all possible help to the needy one gets immense happiness and the mind also becomes happy and that happiness cannot be bought by giving value from anywhere. That happiness is priceless, so instead of seeing a forced, disturbed person, ignore your precious And for a limited time, take some precious moments out of it, and you will experience beautiful spiritual joy and peace. Which will give a new glow to the face.

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Cost of Anything

Cost of Anything

There was a person named Sohan. He was very clever. He used to fool people by confusing things and then charge a hefty amount from them. That is why everyone used to get scared to talk to him. One day he heard, Seth Hariram is very good, kind and helps the needy. Just then the rascal Sohan planned to get money from Hariram too and reached his house. Sohan told Sethji that, I am very poor. I will be very pleased if you help me. Seth Hariram said, 'Start doing what you are capable of and tell your salary'. Sohan said 'give anything'.

Other employees of Sethji told that Sohan is very sly, cunning, dishonest, and a man of deceit. Do not keep him from working, he will definitely do some dishonesty. Sethji deferred the matter by laughing. Now those employees asked Sohan why, he did not ask Sethji for a certain salary, Seth ji is compassionate and would also be ready to pay big money to help the needy. Sohan started laughing but did not say anything because, he had planned it so that he would ask for a lot of money in the name of anything.

When one month was completed while working, he reached Sethji to ask for salary. All the employees also followed closely to watch the spectacle. When Seth ji asked how much salary, Sohan said give anything. When Sethji asked to give five thousand rupees to him, Sohan said that this is very less. I wanted 'something'. Now Seth ji put ten thousand rupees in front of him, but Sohan said that this is nothing. Seth ji put fifteen thousand in front of him and Sohan repeated the same thing that it is nothing.

Seth Hari Ram now understood the whole thing. He said to Sohan "I understand what to give '. I ask for your salary, till then you sit comfortably. Right now, I ask for good, tasty, sweet milk for you." Sethji called an employee and asked him to bring milk. Sohan began to calculate the account in his mind that, for a month's work, he would charge a hefty amount. Then milk came in front of him. He was about to take a sip, he noticed something black floating in the milk. He told Seth ji that there was something in it. Seth Hariram laughed and asked Sohan to take it out and keep it because Sohan wanted something as salary, then it is your whole month's income. Now Sohan had no answer.

He did not even get a little due to greed for more. It is said that "Leave half, poor whole, half meet nor complete pay".

It often happens to us that we do some work thinking that it will be of great benefit, but it does not happen. Then we should understand that, if the path is right, then we will definitely get the desired result. Just the time may take a little longer. Do not panic in any case. Use your intelligence wisely and be prepared for every situation. Those who keep walking on the right path, without stopping, without being tired, they must succeed one day. Look at a distinguished, respected, successful person around you because the place he has reached. You too will be the same one day, just for that you never leave your passion, determination, truth, honesty. All these features will make you intelligent in a short time. If you are already smart, you will make your intelligence sharp, sharp and clever. So now, with a renewed dedication, new determination, resume your stalled work, your closed campaign and a new beginning with a renewed hope, faith, zeal, elation, and success. Start making your move towards With the same wish

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Direction and Diligence

Direction and Diligence

Diligence plays a very important role in elevating personality. Often small children are told that if you work diligently, the result will be good.

When I was a child, I tried to figure out the meanings from many stories I was told, one of which is this story. I'll be sharing it with you today.

There was a speech named Shankar. He had a habit of complaining about everything. He used to think that parents love him less and more of his siblings. In school, the teachers also sided with other students, there is discrimination in the office, thinking similar things, he assumed that God is responsible for all these things. God gave him a bad surroundings, gave him negativity all around, and thinking so, Shankar went to the temple in anger. There he cursed god and said bad things in temple in front of the idol of God, which caused his anger and his mind became somewhat calm.

Now he made it a ritual to go to the temple every day and curse. People worshiping in the temple thought that everything the Lord gives is good and in the temple, one should be respectful. But Shankar did not listen to anyone, his anger, anger, anger, annoyance, trouble , Used to get irritated and fired at God.

One day, it was raining heavily, water was flooded all the way. There was so much rain that people did not even go to the temple to worship that morning. Shankar kept waiting for rain to stop for a while. When the rains became faster, Shankar went to the temple. The family members, the nearby neighbors, advised him not to go in such bad weather. He did not listen and went on his way to the temple. He started cursing the lord, he shouted and cursed so much that he lost his voice. Then he heard a voice from the idol of God saying that Shankar decided to hold god responsible for all his problems and his dedication. Then God explained it to him that Shankar went to the temple even in such a bad weather and even after so many difficulties he still had the courage to go to temple just to curse god. Shankar used to give up on any work after a few day and yet he made it his habit of going to temple everyday and to curse god. he never gave up this work. Then god explained it to him that it is Shankar's sheer will and dedication towards the task which forced god to appear. God told him only if he could show such diligence towards his work, he would have achieved great heights.

Practice and hard work done in the right direction never goes in vain. Plant is to be watered every day and you have to wait for flowers and fruits.

So from today, remove toxicity, nonsense and negative thoughts and start seeing the people around you with a new energy, passion, freshness and positive thoughts. You get happiness, progress and prosperity. Just work with dedication.

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Ninety-Nine's Vicious Circle

Ninety-Nine's Vicious Circle

In a village, a couple lived very harmoniously. They had a simple lifestyle. All income was spent, and they could not even save anything. But, even then the villagers never saw them angry, irritated, or quarreling for anything. One day, everyone started talking about them saying, "there is no pleasure in the life of both, yet both of them are happy". Then an elderly person laughed, saying that "they are not yet stuck into 99's vicious circle, that's why they are so happy. The more they earn, the more they spend, they never save anything for tomorrow and nor they worry for tomorrow". But some people said that it cannot be like that. If they don't have the money then how do they spend. Then the elderly said, give them a few bucks and see them. The next day, There was a bundle of cash placed in front of their house containing 99 rupees (Now this story is ofthe time when making a rupee was considered a luxury. Its equivalent to today's one lakh rupees a day). Both of them asked in the village for the owner of that bundle but everyone said that money is not theirs. They kept the rupees as one of the villager suggested them to count the money and keep it. Both started thinking about "where the money came from?". They kept talking about it all night. They were thinking about the money while working and in evening they started talking about how one rupee will it a whole. Adding just one rupee to it will make it a hundred rupees. Now both of them started thinking about saving a little, So they started consuming less food, working longer hours etc. All of this to save money. Harmony among them slowly diminished and they became angry and irritated overtime, because now both of them had fallen in the ninety-nine vicious circle.

This is happening with us too. We are all engaged in the circle of 99. Our harmony, happiness, goffy, fun is diminishing over time. We keep on thinking about the problems at all time, instead of being in the moment and feel the presence of happiness in our day to day lives. We worry too much about the troubles and problems which haven't even happened yet.

From today, you have to think about whatever that is happening is right for me, spend today happily, believe that the time yet to come will improve but don't spoil your present because today's time will not return. Where money is needed to make a place in society, it is necessary to improve living tolerance. The same happiness is necessary for our mind, body, beauty of the face, and cleanliness. Those who are happy, their personality becomes attractive. All illnesses, all negativity will disappear.

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Honesty

 Honesty

Nowadays, most of us are guilty of dishonesty, theft and cheating etc. Sometimes, we become victim of such things, which makes us upset or even angry.

○ Here is a story to explain how such dishonesty affects us more than it affects victims. 

A beggar found a small bag full of rupees. He picked up the pouch, took out the money and counted it, there were 200 rupees. Then a rich person, a landlord came. Landlord was very nervous. His bag full of money has fallen somewhere in the way. landlord told the beggar that he would give some reward in the return of the pouch. The beggar took out the pouch full of 200 rupees and gave it to landlord and in return sought landlord's reward. Now, the heart of landlord changed. He counted the money and said "there is less money in it. There were 300 rupees in it. You have already withdrawn the money.". The matter got so big that they had to go to the king. The king listened very carefully to all, and he understood that, landlords's is being dishonest and is trying to cheat the beggar. King said that "there were more rupees in landlord's bag. This means that this bag is not of the landlord. There is no owner of this bag", and by saying so, Raja gave that bag to the beggar.

○ Most of us has been a victim of such dishonesty. Some most common one's are stated below;

1. At the time of the examination, I quickly solved the question paper. And as I came out of the examination room, the student behind me started crying and asked the inspector for my answer-book in which I wrote all the answers of the given exam and copied all the answers comfortably.

2. In market, the shopkeepers weigh the "stuff" on a weighing scale and, while putting it in the bag, some quantity of the same is dropped in the container placed below the weighing scale.

3. The time we mother's spent taking the money out of our purse, the shopkeeper's replaces the chosen and selected stuff with the lesser quality or even with the rotten stuff.
 
4. Reducing the weight of the weight plates which are used to measure the weight by stroking it and making it slightly thinner,
 
5. Someone else takes credit for work done by us in the office.

6. Other partners or colleagues getting ahead of us by using unethical means (by hook or by crook)
 
Bad and wrong people are everywhere. Such situations are very bad for our body and mind, and because of such situations, negativity starts to develop in our personality and life. 

First, calm your thoughts and let the person who has been dishonest with you know about his tricks and that you see right through him. Talk only if you are a person with a cold temper or let it slide for a while. If such thing happens at the workplace then think if it affects your work or threatens your career, then decide.

Keep your mind very calm. Rather than regretting things which you can not change, think that you have something better going for you. That you deserve better. You get ready to get a new look, because now you will get more. By making these positive thoughts their strength, do good to fight evil.

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Goodness We Should See

Goodness We Should See

When a boy used to look outside his window, then, a golden, bright, beautiful house was seen far away. He kept thinking, how fortunate people are living in that house. How rich and how happy they are, who live in such a beautiful house. One day the boy said to the parents, that he is going to meet a friend, he will be back in the evening. He happily crossed the difficult road and reached that house. There was a boy of his own age there. The first boy said, that he came from far away to see that beautiful house. The second boy laughed, took him to his window, and said, 'I see a beautiful house on the front hill, its colorful and shines so bright. It is so beautiful. There is no such beautiful house in his area. That house was the first boy's house. On which the light was falling in such a way, that, the house would look beautiful, beautiful, bright.

That's our situation. The truth is, that, we look at others, think in our mind that, we are sad and sick, others are healthy and happy. In everything, we feel as if other is more "better" and we are "bad". There is no need for anyone else to fix our circumstances, we can fix our situations ourselves. You have to make a habit of seeing your good qualities. To overcome our shortcomings, we have to work hard. "We are doing well and we have to do better" this basic mantra will help you in climbing the ladder of progress. Whenever you feel frustration or anger, then think as if you are near success and you are going to get through it. So to think for success, is the identity of being successful.

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What will People Say!

A father and son bought a horse and thought of bringing it home. While returning, both of them started conversing that they've found a very good horse at a very low price. Even the people passing by told them how good their horse. they also made fun of the boy and his father for walking on foot while having a horse. He asked his son to sit on a horse and started walking on foot by himself. A little further, A group of people passed by saying, "how bad his son is? the father is walking on foot and the son is riding the horse". Now after hearing this the boy got off the horse and asked his dad to get on it. A few steps had already passed, the people who worked in the fields started laughing at them and started shouting that "look at the father, Such a heartless father. He is sitting on the horse with ease and the son is walking in such burning sun." Now the father also asked the son to sit with him on the horse. Only after walking a few miles, some bystanders in the path looked at the father and son both sitting on the horses. They started screaming "look at those heartless father and son, riding that poor horse. It looks like that poor horse is about to die". Now both of them got off from the horse and start thinking about what to do now. After thinking for a short while, the two took a strong wooden bamboo and tied the horse on it and lifted it on their shoulders and started walking. All this was the result of what people said to them. They worked according to the criticism they received. They did as they were told. Because of which they neither received any praises, they became a joke and after all that it had bad effect on their health.

The idea of ​​"what people will say" will greatly affect the life style of the person. Often parents raises their children according to their thoughts and ideology. While child's wishes are never heard. Children work hard to fulfill their family's expectations. Later on, they work hard to impress their teacher and after growing up, before signing up for work, they sees if other people appreciates what they have done. While other work on what makes them happy, because of which their personality becomes joyous and cheerful. Later on such people starts keeping people around them happy. Do the work which bring out your personality, which makes you happy ones to keep in mind your happiness awrunka behavior would have been better with her and around her ..

        
To build a positive energy inside you, you have to start from today.

Instead of obeying every thing of the people, think Whether you will feel happy in doing that work or not.

The work or task which feels good to do then do that. Don't work just because someone tell's you to do it.

Do a job everyday which makes you happy.

Wear your favorite clothes.

Try to help at least one person in the day, everyday.

While answering or saying anything, keep smiles on the face. Slowly this will remove negativity.

When you start listening to your heart and mind, then everything starts to feels good and the complaints starts to decrease, this is the beginning of real happiness.

  

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