What will People Say!
A father and son bought a horse and thought of bringing it home. While returning, both of them started conversing that they've found a very good horse at a very low price. Even the people passing by told them how good their horse. they also made fun of the boy and his father for walking on foot while having a horse. He asked his son to sit on a horse and started walking on foot by himself. A little further, A group of people passed by saying, "how bad his son is? the father is walking on foot and the son is riding the horse". Now after hearing this the boy got off the horse and asked his dad to get on it. A few steps had already passed, the people who worked in the fields started laughing at them and started shouting that "look at the father, Such a heartless father. He is sitting on the horse with ease and the son is walking in such burning sun." Now the father also asked the son to sit with him on the horse. Only after walking a few miles, some bystanders in the path looked at the father and son both sitting on the horses. They started screaming "look at those heartless father and son, riding that poor horse. It looks like that poor horse is about to die". Now both of them got off from the horse and start thinking about what to do now. After thinking for a short while, the two took a strong wooden bamboo and tied the horse on it and lifted it on their shoulders and started walking. All this was the result of what people said to them. They worked according to the criticism they received. They did as they were told. Because of which they neither received any praises, they became a joke and after all that it had bad effect on their health.
The idea of "what people will say" will greatly affect the life style of the person. Often parents raises their children according to their thoughts and ideology. While child's wishes are never heard. Children work hard to fulfill their family's expectations. Later on, they work hard to impress their teacher and after growing up, before signing up for work, they sees if other people appreciates what they have done. While other work on what makes them happy, because of which their personality becomes joyous and cheerful. Later on such people starts keeping people around them happy. Do the work which bring out your personality, which makes you happy ones to keep in mind your happiness awrunka behavior would have been better with her and around her ..
To build a positive energy inside you, you have to start from today.
Instead of obeying every thing of the people, think Whether you will feel happy in doing that work or not.
The work or task which feels good to do then do that. Don't work just because someone tell's you to do it.
Do a job everyday which makes you happy.
Wear your favorite clothes.
Try to help at least one person in the day, everyday.
While answering or saying anything, keep smiles on the face. Slowly this will remove negativity.
When you start listening to your heart and mind, then everything starts to feels good and the complaints starts to decrease, this is the beginning of real happiness.
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